Words can have an indescribably powerful impact in my life, good or bad.  I remember that totally bizarre  verse I’d sing when someone used words to hurt:  “Sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt me.”  That is not the mother of all lies, but it’s close.  I can think of specific occasions right now when I would have gladly endured a broken bone rather than bear the pain of angry or condemning words.  Broken bones will heal, but broken hearts or spirits…well, that’s another story.

 So, I offer you / challenge you / encourage you to identify someone today to whom you can sincerely say at least one of these simple, profound, meaningul phrases with a smile on your face, kindness in your voice and good will in your heart:

• “I’ve been thinking about you” – Wow!  For someone to think about you in a positive way – and share that sentiment – has the effect of a cool breeze on a hot day.
• “I believe in you” – I’m more aware every day of how few people are ever praised, honored, affirmed, or otherwise valued.  Give that gift to someone; it costs you nothing but may mean everything.
• “I’m here for you” – I remember the first line of a song recorded by Christian artist Larnelle Harris that said, “alone again, in a crowded room…”.  Someone nearby is lonely or hurting today; your words may offer comfort beyond what you can see.

Words can hurt, but much more importantly they can help, heal and provide hope.